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Anoniem

Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 06:45

Ik denk dat jij het enige echte juiste pad bewandeld hebt Bubbels.
Weet je ook of betreffende ruiter aangesproken is?
Aan de andere kant kan ik wel een naam (en meer ook) noemen van iemand die al meerdere keren aangesproken is en meerdere verzoeken heeft gehad om zijn performance wat te veranderen totaal in de wind slaat... Rijdt immers prijzen, en daarmee lijkt alles gerechtvaardigd te zijn.
Waar ik wel eens m'n hart voor vasthou, is als ik bedenk hoe iemand op een wedstrijd in het openbaar z'n beest be- danwel mis-handelt, hoe dat daar dan thuis moet gaan. Maar waarschijnlijk WIL je dat niet eens weten...

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Klopt, en ik heb voor mezelf besloten dat ik NOOIT zo wil worden als hun. Als ik ooit wedstrijden rij, denk ik toch echt in 1e instantie aan mijn paard, en niet aan mijn eigen "image". De knol onder je kont moet het werk doen, behandel 'm dan goed.

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 15:30

Maar is er verder niemand die hier wat over kwijt wil?

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 16:28

Nou , ik ben zelf ook niet altijd vriendelijk Bloos
Ik heb ook nogal de neiging tot rukken en plukken als het paard druk is Scheve mond
En dan kijk ik terug en schaam me diep.

bubbels schreef:
Godzijdank waren ze niet verbaasd over mijn melding, en werd het direct in behandeling genomen.

Maar ik vraag me dus af wat ze er aan gaan doen?
"In behandeling genomen " zegt zo weinig

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 16:32

Jij schaamt je tenminste! Je ontkent het niet en je bent er al helemaal niet trots op. Ik weet wel wat er met de klacht is gebeurd, maar dat kan ik hier op Bokt beter niet melden.

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:12

Aha, ok dan Haha!

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:13

Anders denk ik dat ik binnen enkele weken een andere kleur ogen heb. Boos! Knipoog

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:16

Mag je zelf meedoen in the Paint Mares *LOL*

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:29

Romkabouter schreef:
Mag je zelf meedoen in the Paint Mares *LOL*


En bedankt! Cool

Eigenlijk stompzinnig dat je dit soort dingen niet in het openbaar kunt bespreken.

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:36

Kan wel, maar vereist een dikke huid. (En sterke armen misschien Knipoog )
Ik denk ook heel vaak dat mensen er niets van zeggen omdat ze iets hebben van "Ik kan het zelf niet beter" en "Ik heb geen zin in een grote bek terug"

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:41

Je kunt toch best zeggen wat er met de klacht gebeurd is? Is degene geschorst?

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:43

En als het nou iemand zou zijn op Bokt? Zou je daar wat mee doen? Of dan juist absoluut niet?

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:44

Nou word ik helemaal benieuwd Haha!

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XoNo schreef:
Je kunt toch best zeggen wat er met de klacht gebeurd is? Is degene geschorst?


Kan niet, weet iedereen direct wie het is, en zoveel guts heb ik niet. Verward

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:47

Nouja, ik vind het al heel knap dat je naar het secretariaat bent gelopen

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:49

Tnx. Lachen

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:51

XoNo schreef:
Nou word ik helemaal benieuwd Haha!

Ik ook Haha!

Het gaat toch niet over mij ofwel >;)

~~}>

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:52

Vork Nee hoor. Niet over jou. Maar ik heb je niet zien rijden. Tong uitsteken

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 17:54

Pfiew Tong uitsteken

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 17:57

Je hebt wel een verdomd mooi paard overigens. Lachen

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 18:00

Thanx Lachen
Vind ik eigenlijk ook wel Bloos

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst door de TopicStarter : 29-10-04 18:03

Da's prettig. Je zal elke dag als je de stal in komt denken; "Jezus! Wat ben jij le-lijk!":D Maar da's niet aan de orde. Let's go on-topic.

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 18:14

Indeed Knipoog
Maar ik vind het ook moeilijk om te zeggen hoor. Je kan niet altijd goed inschatten of het paard terecht op zijn nummer wordt gezet. De mate waarin is ook voor iederaan anders. De een vind een keer goed boos kijken als genoeg, de ander prikt hem bijna lek.
Het is per paard ook anders.
Als ik het ene paard onredelijk behandel kan ik er een week niet bij komen, maar een andere kan ik een r*tschop verkopen en staat me dan aan te kijken met een blik van Gaaaap

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 18:21

bubbels schreef:
Maar is er verder niemand die hier wat over kwijt wil?

Jaren geleden zijn we bij een wedstrijd weggelopen om die reden. Ik heb dan dezelfde twijfel als jij, wat moet je er mee doen?
Nu ik een x aantal jaren verder ben, zou ik ook iemand opzoeken die bij de wedstrijdorganisatie hoort.
Mijn man wou daarna trouwens enkele jaren niet meer mee en het heeft hem erg op de western wereld tegen gemaakt. Op engelse wedstrijden komen met onze dochter die net komt kijken. Daar schijnt dit soort dingen dus ook voor te komen maar hebben we ze nog niet meegemaakt.
Ik ben ook wel eens nijdig op mijn paard geweest en heb dan achteraf spijt. Nu ruk ik dan wel niet in haar mond maar als ik mijn spoor heb gebruikt, voel ik me later weer een bitch.
Ik kreeg van mijn instructrice eens de opmerking dat ik niet boos moest worden op mijn paard maar op mezelf als het niet lukt, fouten moet je zoeken bij jezelf. Ik zat toen trouwens net heel braaf op mezelf te schelden......

p.s. als je bedreigt wordt, heb je een Bokt knokploeg achter je staan

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Link naar dit bericht Geplaatst: 29-10-04 18:30

Bubbels, je hebt juist gehandeldt.
Trouwens in Amerika zitten ze ook met dit soort ruiters, lees dit maar eens, dit viel afgelopen week op mijn deurmat.
Let wel, het is een lang artikel en in het engels, maar ik vond het wel interesant leesvoer.

Training or abuse?
By Jennifer Forsberg Meyer (November 2004 Horse & Rider)

The will to win in today’s highly competitive show world
can lead to brutality.
Could your horse be a victim?


A 3-year-old stallion stands tied in a small, covered enclosure. His halter is hooked to a chain hanging from a rafter. The tether raises the colt’s head and neck to an awkward level: he almost appears to be on tiptoe. He tugs against the restrain, half-rearing and shuffling his feet, tying to ease his discomfort.
The colt will be “hung” like this, away from food and water, all night. In the morning, body-sore and exhausted, he’ll put up much less resistance when his schooling resumes
The person riding him may call this a necessary part of training.
Others would call it abuse.


Ordinarily, “horse abuse” conjures images of neglected backyard animals starving or thirsting to death. But there’s a subtler kind. It’s closer to home, and harder to think about. It happens to well-bred show horses, at the hands of those charged with their care.
It occurs when the desire to win -or otherwise achieve a training goal- overcomes the dictates of fair play and humane treatment.
Sometimes we fail to recognize it. (“Its just training.”) Sometimes we justify it. (“Everyone does it.”) Sometimes we simply turn away. (“Not my business.”) Sometimes, incredibly, we inflict it ourselves, or cause it to be inflicted by our unrealistic demands.
Is such abuse inevitable? The horse is one of the most willing and trainable creatures on earth. The human is the most intelligent and creative, and supposedly the most empathetic. Shouldn’t we be able to persuade the horse to do our bidding without abusing him?

What is cruel?
Defining abuse in horse training is not as easy as it might seem. We’d all agree that proper discipline of a horse is OK, while maltreatment is not. But which is which?
Swatting a horse that presents his rump to kick is clearly not abuse, while administering a 90-second “horsewhipping” undeniably is.
But what about all the gray areas between these extremes?
For the purpose of this article, we’ll focus on measures that most horseman can agree are, by definition, abusive.
These include:
Hang-tying to break down a horse’s resistance and promote a level of head carriage (by exhausting the neck muscles).
Riding or longeing to exhaustion (far beyond the length of time needed to “get the fresh out”).
Spurring, especially with so-called “rock grinders” (extremely sharp spurs), causing bleeding and/or “spur dents” (indentations in the cartilage between ribs).
Excessive jerking on the mouth, especially with a severe bit (such as a super-narrow-gauge twisted-wire snaffle), causing injury to the tongue, bars, or lips.
Excessive jerking on the lead shank, especially when a chain is used over the face or in the mouth, causing injury.
Excessive whipping or beating, from the saddle or the ground, causing terror or injury (thrashings that represent an expression of anger and frustration rather than a measured attempt at discipline).
Hitting about the head, especially with a solid weapon.
“Bitting around” for excessive periods (where a horse is left to stand for hours with his head tied around to one side, then the other, to enforce flexibility
Withholding food or water to create submissiveness. Cutting back on the grain ration of a hot horse is OK: starving a horse into weakness is not.

Obviously, such measures aren’t the norm in today’s Western horse world. Yet they may be more pervasive than we’d care to think.
“There definitely are trainer whose philosophy is to win at any cost” attests Charlie Cole, a multiple world-champion Quarter horse trainer based in Texas. “Not many people will resort to the worst abuses, such as riding a horse to complete fatigue or hitting it over the head with a bat. But, believe me, it does happen in extreme cases, and owners need to be made aware of it.”

The roots of abuse
How does someone who ostensibly loves horses )or at least chooses to make a living or pursue a hobby with them) come to use such methods? There’s no simple answer, and typically many factors are involved. They may include:
Pressure. A trainer’s financial well-being often rests on his or her ability to win in competition. This can lead to cut corners and overstepped boundaries. Overly demanding owners add to the dilemma.
“Some clients have a must-win mentality,” notes Cole “They don’t care what you do as long as it seems to ‘work.’ But it’s not worth it to me -no one can pay me enough to abuse a horse.”
Big-money futurities -which require so much of the youngest, least-experienced horses- put further pressure on trainers. Abuse may become a means to “get the job done” in the limited time available before a major event.
Weak training skills. Abuse is sometimes the latest resort of trainer who’ve run out of ideas. “It helps to have a lot of ‘tools’ in your toolbox,” observes Sandy Collier, a world champion reined cow horse trainer based in California. “If you try something several times and it’s not working, it’s your responsibility to figure out how to present it differently to the horse so it will work. Losing your temper and punishing in anger is counterproductive,” she adds. “It just creates fear and more resistance, which then can lead to more abuse.”
Tough event standards. Modern trends in certain events can create training challenges that invite abuse. For example, Western pleasure’s current preference for level neck carriage, slow movement, and bobble-free correctness –all on a draped rein- places a huge burden on trainers. They must, in effect, create “Stepford mounts” that perform perfectly with no visible guidance. It’s a difficult undertaking under the best of circumstances. When difficulties do arise, observes Cole, some trainers are tempted to resort to intimidation and abuse to ensure their horses’ compliance in the show pen.
Bad “fits.” The specialized nature of today’s events requires exceptional horses. When a horse without natural talent for a particular event is pointed in that direction anyway, the risk of abuse rises.
“You have to know how far to push before stopping,” says Texas-based Quarter horse trainer Vicky Holt, who adds that sometimes it’s the level of competition that’s wrong. “When a horse just isn’t capable of the top ranks, I’ll suggest to his owner that we do weekend Quarter shows and skip the world and Congress. Then you’ve got a better fit.” Sometimes what’s needed is a complete job change. “I’ll tell a client ‘This horse does not want to go to Pleasure horse school,’” says Carol Dal Porto, a world-champion Appaloosa trainer based in California. “I’ll offer another class, such as trail, jumping, or a pattern event. Beyond that, if a horse just doesn’t want to be a show horse, you have to send it home.”
But, as Cole points out, offering options is easier for all-around trainers. “If all you do is one event, you’ve got to train that horse in that event or send it to someone else.” He observes. And because a lost horse is lost revenue, single-event trainers may push the envelope in an effort to make a horse perform regardless of suitability.
Machismo. The western horse world’s cowboy heritage means there’s a certain acceptance of “bloodletting” and a “might makes right” perspective. Frank Barnett, a Florida-based trainer who rehabilitates problem horses, points out that relying on brute force is a copout. “You’re not a real horseman until you lose your strength,” he says, noting that advancing age takes care of some brutal tendencies. “When you no longer can muscle a horse, you wind up figuring out better ways of training him,” he says.

Finding a fix
Abuse does more than injure a horse mentally and physically. It also damages the industry at large. “Brutality can ‘work’ on a horse, but it doesn’t teach him much,” observes Barnett. So although a fearful, intimidated horse might perform for his trainer, he likely won’t to the same degree for someone else –say, his non-pro owner.
“We lose people from the business because of it,” says Holt. “The owner tries to ride the horse and say’s, ‘This one’s not trained!’”
Moreover, like drug abuse, violent training is the opposition of what most trainers claim to be offering. The principles of time-honored horsemanship call for the development of the horse, mentally and physically, through thoughtful, systematic, patient work.
“What trainers need to ‘get’ is that non abusive methods work better than abusive,” says Dal Porto. “When i was just starting out as a trainer, there were times I’d get frustrated, and the common thing for inexperienced trainers is to focus on what the horse is doing wrong and then correct him. My program began to move forward when I started looking for what a horse was doing right –and how I could reward him and make him want to do that again. When all the negative energy is replaced with positive energy, it creates a much better learning environment.”
Barnett seconds this sentiment, noting that trainers need to have something to fall back on when they run into resistance. “That way,” he says, “they don’t simply longe harder, or turn to ‘bigger’ equipment. When you have a logical, progressive system, you always have a baseline to go back to.”
Adds Cole, “there’s only so much a horse can learn at one time. I preach this. Say you have a young horse you’ve been training for a month. He’ll be going along really well up to a certain point, but when you ask him to go a step further, instead of getting better, he gets worse. He’s hit a wall.
“At this point, if you insist on getting him back up to where he was before –and it’s tempting!- you can wind up getting frustrated, and this is where abuse can come into it,” he continues. “But if you settle, that day, for just a little bit better, then he’ll be a lot better for you the next day. You’ve got to know when to be patient.”
Collier notes that if you shoot for making your horse just one percent better each day, he’ll be 100 percent better in 100 days. “Now, that’s something worth striving for, and it rarely results in the pressure to cause abuse,” she says.
Carol Harris, owner of two-time American Quarter Horse Association Superhorse Rugged Lark, and a member of AQHA’s judges committee, says trainers must stop expecting horses to be ‘bionic’ in execution and consistency.
“This is a living, breathing creature, with feelings. If you treat him well, he’ll pay you back in spades in the long run,” she says, adding this doesn’t mean that you can’t ever “get after” a horse. “But it must be done with timing, skill, and moderation,” she says. “And, afterwards, you don’t keep threatening –you give the horse the chance to be good.”
Some breed and sport associations, to their credit, now police their events to keep the worst offenses from occurring on show grounds. But that doesn’t stop a trainer from hang-tying a horse at a nearby barn, then hauling in to compete in the big class.
Judging is a huge piece of the equation. Associations –which set standards and oversee judges- must realize what any trainer can tell you: What wins in the show pen becomes the standard, regardless of what the rule book says.
If judges were to consistently stop rewarding unrealistic goals –say, a 2-year-old so buttoned-up he wont’ even glance across the arena- especially when it’s obvious the horse has been intimidated, the standard would change. Then, trainer who can achieve such über-obedience only via abuse would no longer feel the compulsion to do so.

What can you do
First and most important, make sure your own horse is never under the control of an abusive trainer (see “Don’t let it happen to your horse.”) Beyond that, don’t be shy about letting others know your feelings about abusive methods. The more that’s left unsaid, the easier it is for those who abuse to rationalize their actions. If you see obvious abuse at a show, notify a steward. If someone asks your opinion about a trainer you know to be abusive, be honest. You needn’t generalize or pass judgment: just relay any relevant information you know to be true and let the person draw his or her own conclusions.
Ultimately, we all must face the reality of what goes on, and help others to do so as well. Frank Barnett, who’s spent a lifetime studying classical horsemanship and how it applies to the most difficult horses, doesn’t mince words.
“The old masters say that whatever’s painful to the horse is abusive,” he says. “I won’t argue with that, even though we are all human, and probably lying if we say we never lose our tempers. Still, the horse-human thing is supposed to be a partnership –even if we do have, must have, 51 percent of the deal. The horse,” he adds meaningfully, “is not meant to be a slave.”

Don’t let it happen to your horse
To keep your horse from falling victim to abuse, follow these guidelines in selecting and monitoring a trainer:
Check his/her reputation. Talk to longtime clients and others who know the trainer well. Ask specifically about the individual’s training philosophy, whether his or her program follows a logical progression, how he or she handles discipline.
“Good trainers will adapt any program to fit individual horses or trends, but they’ll always have a foundation to fall back on,: says Appaloosa trainer Carol Dal Porto.
Stay grounded. Don’t become starry-eyed over a trainer’s name recognition. If you’re seeking a halter trainer, don’t let “shank power” (an individual’s current popularity in the show pen) blind you to abusive practices.
Watch the warm-up. Ideally, observe the trainer in action over a series of shows, paying particular attention to his/her manner in the warm-up pen. “Are they consistent?” asks Dal Porto.
“What is their relationship with a horse? Are they riding him all day, do they pick-pick-pick-pick at him, never giving him a chance to choose to be good?”
Keep in mind that people are generally more circumspect in public then they would be private, so any roughness you see at shows is likely to be intensified back home.
Visit the facility. Does the trainer’s barn look safe and well-maintained, with obvious care taken for the horses’ well-being? Do the horses look happy, relaxed and well-fed, with no raw mouths, bloody sides or swelling on the head? Watch in particular the horses’ expression and body language when they are around the trainer. Do the animals seem alert and willing? Or dull and robotic? Watch the ears: if the horse insists on keeping one ear obsessively cocked toward the trainer and appear fearful, it may be a sign they’re remembering –and anticipating- abuse.
Ask to see the tack room, and check the bits on work bridles. Do you see blood, or worse, bits of tissue?
Be candid. Discuss you goals and the level of competition you desire. Ask, is my horse suitable for this? How will you know? What are my options?
“Make it clear you don’t want to win at all cost, and specify the things you don’t want done.” recommends Quarter horse trainer Charlie Cole.
“A good question to ask,” suggest Dal Porto,”Is, what do you do when jou get stuck? Ideally, a trainer has a mentor or a network of professionals to compare notes with. That reduces the risk of you horse becoming your trainers guinea pig, when trusted colleagues might be able to offer just the solution your horse needs.”
Remain vigilant. If proximity allows, go see your horse regularly. Ask the trainer if it’s OK to occasionally drop in unannounced, for a short visit that won’t require his time. Whenever you visit, watch for the same sort of things you did when observing the trainers other horses. If you find anything that alarms you, discuss it with the trainer to learn of any extenuating circumstances. If the trainer seems defensive or evasive, it may be time to consider a change –for the good of your horse!